I want to talk to you about something I’ve seen in so many of the incredible women I’ve worked with — and something I’ve lived myself.

Perhaps you feel it too. A quiet ache, a sense of spiritual disconnection, as if a part of you has been on a long, solitary journey. You’ve done the work, you’ve read the books, you’ve meditated and journaled, but a question still lingers: What if your “failures” aren’t failures at all? What if they’re simply invitations home?

There’s this unspoken pressure, isn’t there? This feeling that your spiritual awakening is a long, arduous checklist. You’re supposed to be meditating for an hour every morning. Journaling until your hand cramps. Manifesting with perfect precision. You’re always “doing the work,” but it feels like you’re running on a hamster wheel.

And if you’re honest with yourself, sometimes you feel like you’re failing. You feel like you’re behind, like you’re not as “evolved” or as “aligned” as everyone else seems to be on social media.

I’ve been there. I have. I know what it’s like to chase alignment like it’s a finish line. To feel like my power was something I had to perform, to prove to myself and to the world that I was worthy of the life I wanted. It’s an exhausting way to live, and the truth? It was leading me away from myself, not closer.

What I’ve come to realize is this: Spiritual awakening doesn’t have to be overwhelming, performative, or complicated. It can be as simple as breathing, as simple as remembering, and as simple as returning to yourself. It’s not about becoming someone new, but about homecoming.

My new book, Divine Messages for Your Soul, is an invitation to this homecoming. It’s a sacred companion for you, and it’s a guide I wrote for the woman who needs to be reminded of her own incredible power. The kind of power that doesn’t shout, but simply is.

Signs of Performative vs. Authentic Awakening

It’s easy to get lost in the noise of the wellness world. We see it all around us, especially in the Gen Z spirituality trends and the broader search for a spiritual revival. But how do you know if you’re truly leading from your soul or just performing a role?

Here are a few signs that can help you distinguish between the two:

Performative Awakening is about…

• Validation: Constantly posting about your spiritual practices to get external praise.
• Effort: Believing that your growth is directly proportional to how hard you hustle or how many practices you perform.
• Perfectionism: Hiding the messy, human parts of your journey because you believe a “healed” person must be perfect.
• Outcomes: Being obsessed with a specific outcome or manifestation, which leads to disappointment when it doesn’t happen on your timeline.
• Looking Outside: Believing the guru, the coach, or the program has your answers.

Authentic Awakening is about…

• Resonance: Leading from your quiet, inner truth and attracting what is meant for you simply by being who you are.
• Ease: Trusting that your path unfolds with natural flow, not force.
• Integration: Bravely facing your shadows and integrating them, knowing that your power comes from your wholeness, not from a manufactured perfection.
• Presence: Grounding yourself in the present moment and trusting the unfolding, even if it doesn’t make linear sense.
• Looking Within: Remembering that you hold all the answers you need within your own body and soul.

Authentic spiritual awakening is not about becoming someone else; it’s about a gentle homecoming. It’s about remembering what was already there all along.

The THRIVE Method™: 6 Gentle Steps to Your Spiritual Homecoming

When I was writing this book, I wanted to give you a gentle map. Not a rigid, step-by-step instruction manual, but a framework to guide your journey. I’ve organized the book around my signature THRIVE Method™, a simple process that has been so transformative for me and for my clients. It’s an unfolding, not a checklist. It’s a grounded and evidence-informed transformational method for visionary women.

1. T is for Transform. This is the beginning. It’s where we bravely look at the emotional wounds that have been holding us back. It’s about gently transforming the energy of the past, not reliving it. This is the phase where we release deep-rooted trauma, emotional pain, shame, and ancestral burdens from your body, mind, and energy field. This is where your nervous system is stabilized and your inner child finally feels safe.
2. H is for Harmonize. This is the beautiful work of reconnecting with your body. Your body is a vessel of wisdom, and it’s time to listen to it. This part of the book is about bringing your mind, body, and soul into a state of deep harmony. It’s about regulating your nervous system, rewiring your subconscious, and redefining your identity as a sovereign woman.
3. R is for Realize. This is a beautiful phase where you begin to realize the incredible truth of who you are, without all the old stories and filters. You awaken your inner wisdom and start to trust it, reclaiming your inherent feminine authority.
4. I is for Illuminate. Here, you get to shine a light on your truth. You step into your authentic self, allowing that inner radiance to illuminate the path forward for you and for others. This is where your clarity becomes more magnetic than your content, and you begin to transmit rather than perform.
5. V is for Vision. From this place of clarity and self-trust, you can now begin to vision your future. This is not about forced manifestation, but about co-creating your life from a place of deep knowing and wholeness. You are no longer just a seeker; you are a soul-leader awakening, ready to birth your movement.
6. E is for Embody. This is the most important part. It’s about fully embodying the transformation. It’s about living this new way of being, not just thinking about it. You become the woman you’re meant to be, not by doing, but by simply being. This is the process of mastering your inner state, aligning with a natural flow, and leading with genuine self-possession.

Daily Practices for Your Homecoming

I wanted to include some small, daily practices you can start today to begin your journey back home to yourself.

• Sacred Boundary Reclamation: Spend five minutes writing down what you are willing to accept and what you will no longer tolerate in your life. This is not a “mean” thing to do; it is an act of deep self-love and leadership.
• Womb Wisdom: Take a moment to place your hands on your lower abdomen, your womb space. Breathe deeply and simply listen. What is your body trying to tell you? Your womb is a powerful center of creativity and intuition, and it’s time to honor its messages.
• Energetic Upgrades: Instead of trying to “fix” your problems, try this: imagine your energy field getting cleaner. Visualize it clearing away old, stagnant energy. A clean energy field attracts abundance and clarity.
• Ancestral Release: Before you begin your day, offer a quiet prayer to your ancestors. Ask for their guidance and for the release of any burdens you have been unknowingly carrying for them. You don’t need to do it all on your own.
• Stillness Ritual: Don’t just rush into your day. Give yourself five minutes of silence, even if it’s in the bathroom or your car. This stillness is the birthplace of your clarity.

This Is More Than Just a Book

I wanted this book to be a guide for the woman who is longing for clarity, softness, and true embodiment. It’s for the leader who knows that her power isn’t in her performance, but in her presence.

It’s an invitation to a different kind of life. A life where you can heal from betrayal and invisible wounds. A life where you can find clarity without the hustle. A life where you are fully embodied, grounded in your own truth.

This is a book for the woman who is ready to stop abandoning herself and start leading as her highest self. It’s a reminder that we don’t need to finish. We just need to feel. We don’t need to chase alignment. We just need to return to what’s already within us.

Let Divine Messages for Your Soul be the gentle guide that walks beside you as you remember your power, your wholeness, and your truth.

if this feels like a deep breath you’ve been waiting to take — if you’re ready to return home to yourself — this book is for you.

Let Divine Messages for Your Soul be the gentle guide that walks beside you as you remember your power, your wholeness, and your truth.

You can buy the book and begin your journey home today on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3HIHXNx

Share this with a woman on her journey home. 🤍